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SoulBandit	8-Jun-20 18:25:51 Think about what you are most curious about and then explore the limits of your comfort. IS it exhibitionism, voyeurism or something else. Start with exploring your fantasies and take small steps to make them a realisty. Always happy to chat

exiled3826	8-Jun-20 18:58:13 All you e put sounds good as you havta learn but as the first dude said, know you’re limits and make sure who your talking to or what have you knows and respects all that If your ever up for a chat, feel free to message me any time as I do know how to ramble on at times be it normal or other lol

nextel340	14-Jun-20 3:57:33 sasha, I think if you are trying to learn your body . . . then to think about it you need to develop your own vocabulary . . . your own sense of self and your sexuality . . . . Soulbandit suggests exploring your curiosities explore the edges of your comfort zone which is more an exploration of mind rather than body . . . however exploring sexuality is often an exploration of both mind and body . . . i have a couple of thoughts. The first is keep a journal of your sexy thoughts and musings . . . .when you explore NN what fantasies emerge . . . if you have sexual toys or favorite touches try and describe those touches and how your body feels. . . . try to be specific . . . search for words that really match the feelings that you experience. One measure of learning and understanding is if you can communicate what you have learned . . . .and for that you need to develop your own words and thoughts on the subject . . your body . . your mind. . . no one but you can do that. . . .others can suggest activities . . . but the analysis is all up to you. . . as you have an itellectual bent then i'm thinking a journal is a good place to start. . . my second suggestion is hitting up some of the NN gals for their process as they have gone or are going through this themselves.

nextel340	14-Jun-20 14:46:58 Sasha, I was reading your "about me" profile statement. I find it odd that you are sapiosexual and demisexual . . . and yet it sounds that your sexual partners have not had the understanding or degree of connection to want to "put in the work" as it were. You do say that you are shy and maybe there is a communication gap where they really don't understand what you truely need . . . to be honest your partners should want to please you as much as you please them good sex is a two way street . . . there may be another factor here that you may need to think about . . . (I can't answer this for you) it is sometimes the case where an executive who must be the lead at work at work constantly . . . finds that in sex they want the opposite . . . they want to be the one who is lead and taken care of . . they want to shed that responsibility of always being in charge . . . again if you can learn your own body and mind and articulate what you need and want and feel then maybe it will help your lovers really inderstand . . . I do believe that lovers want tob recognized as good lovers . . . so I do believe that lovers can be taught.

nextel340	15-Jun-20 13:43:27 Sasha, One more thought . . . ok maybe two . . . (using the blog as a way to communicate as you are not premium and PMs are limited) Ok on with the thoughts . . . I was wondering if maybe your partner's reluctance to "put in the work" might be the result of you taking too long to respond, orgasm etc.. . . if your focus is on him/her and not your self . . . if you are in your head, as it were, and not focused on what your body is feeling . . . then you are inhibiting your own path to pleasure . . . Some ways to teach yourself and your partner: Talk about your desire to feel more to explore you body's senses and your mind's sexual curiosities. I want you to do this (insert your specific instruction here) to me and I will try to tell you exactly how it feels . . . I want to find the words that describe it for us both. . . . Then you can do the same tell me something specific to do to you and you tell me what you are feeling. Now don't use words like "feels good' feels really good. feels great, . . . find words like feather soft, electric, thrills, little shocks, makes me feel like . . . You can do this during foreplay and it will help you build a vocabulary and dialog . . . a way to communicate during sex to make it even better . . . you need to embrace and celebrate the feelings together . . .

nextel340	16-Jun-20 21:14:10 Sasha, I think one of the wonderful things about NN is it allows and encourages growth and exploration . . . There are a couple of modern philosophers who in their own way address the stages of life and how, if we are not careful . . . we can lose our capacity for learning and become bogged down by just the necessities of living . . . when one considers how long our lives are it would be ashame to assume that we knew it all at twenty, thirty or fourty. Life is a case for the opsimath the person who begins or continues, to study or learn late in life. . . . Anyway here is what they said on learning: "When I call to mind my earliest impressions I wonder whether the process ordinarily referred to as growing up is not actually a process of growing down; whether experience so much touted among adults as a thing children lack is not actually a progressive dilution of the essentials by the trivialities of living. " - Aldo Leopold "I have a tremendously high opinion of the age of five. I actually think that to become really mature is to return to the age of five . . . to become able to recapture the capacity for absorption for learning . . . the tremendous hunger to master skills that you have at the age of five. " - Eric Hoffer

nextel340	20-Jul-20 17:56:21 I have a question: You say in one of your picture captions that you are still so shy , , , and I wonder are you shy about your body because of how you feel you body may look to another . . . or are you shy for how you feel about you sexuality and and how your body feels? . . . your friend - max

balhannah1	23-Dec-23 7:17:25 have you tried tantra