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Blog Title: Pay for play?
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wanderlust85
29-Dec-19 12:22:18
Keen to hear the conclusion to the story. Don’t think you’d be classed as a prostitute in their eyes or this situation. While there was money involved seemed to be more to compensate for your inconvenience, just happened to be a bonus that you’re a lil minx that didn’t come down in the last sex shower. I think the appropriate term for what happened was that you were their unicorn! Just too bad they took it too far and its over. Hope it was cathartic getting that part out!
29-Dec-19 12:22:30
Would luv to hear more about these weekends.....devil 8s in the details....m!!!
29-Dec-19 12:49:21
I do not see you as a prostitute in this situation. I see it sort of the same as you mentioned (although Male view) If I take a woman out on a date, I pay for things, if we sleep together that does not make her a prostitute she is my date. I know some will disagree with me but as an old friend of mine once said, one way or the other as Males, we end up paying for pleasure many times. I know there are fantastic marriages where both parties want and appreciate sex, but I guess my relationships have been pretty messed up and I always feel as if I am paying one way or the other.
FWIW - I have never gone to a prostitute although I was tempted when in Amsterdam about 18 years ago.
29-Dec-19 13:05:43
Finding unsolicited cash after a fun weekend, no, that doesn't make you a prostitute. Skipping out subsequent weekends on your cleaning job because you knew you would be paid better as a slave, one could make the case for prostitution. The reason I would say that it wasn't is because you were finding enjoyment in it all whereas a prostitute no longer finds the pleasure, just a job. And then you stopped the whole thing once you stopped finding the enjoyment. Must have made for some interesting yoga classes!

Anxious to hear more details of what you were doing, wouldn't do, and what finally ended it.
29-Dec-19 13:54:31
You did it of your own free will and not expecting the cash. I think good for you and you enjoyed it. Thats the best part. I think you should hook up with them again if it was good but set up clear guidelines or you are gone for good. Anyway, Cheers J
29-Dec-19 16:00:36
WOW
29-Dec-19 18:00:49
No, not a prostitute. That was them making sure you didn't get hurt by missing a paycheck by being with them. It was kind of them, IMO.
29-Dec-19 18:27:53
First,I would like to hear more. Second, this does make you a prostitute. Probably won't be a popular comment but I think it's accurate. Sure, the first time was not you but you went back knowing you'd perform sex acts and get paid. You could have scheduled times where you weren't working and turned down the money. You chose to not do one job and to do another job (even if you enjoyed it more). I also want to say that I think prostitution should not be a crime. It is just another profession but one that has been stigmatized by religious fanatics and society in general over time.
29-Dec-19 18:56:10
Like many have said, far from being a hooker, it seems to me that they knew that it cut into your funding, and besides you all had fun. I think you shouldn't let it weigh you any more. :) Besides, I'd love to hear the rest of the story ;)
30-Dec-19 11:00:37
I enjoyed reading your story. Sounds like you had a great experience. Can’t wait to read more. I like how you have code words in your experience’s. Thanks for sharing. Feeling like a few tacos tonight. But that’s a different story.
SB
30-Dec-19 14:30:54
I hope it was a great experience despite your inner struggle with it.
People like to use the word "prostitute" or "whore" when they are trying to be degrading. But that's a bunch of bullshit. I say if people are willing to pay you for something, don't have shame in selling it. Especially if you enjoy it. Let society deal with labels and morality. You'll never fit into everyone's version of it anyway so who cares?
Do what makes you happy and what you are comfortable with.
3-Jan-20 8:19:57
Great story! Am I getting a hint that seeing yourself as a sexy hooker turns you on? Maybe a little bit?
5-Jan-20 13:58:23
I'd say not. You received a gift for your company after the event - you didn't solicit services. And I'm going to guess you would have returned wether more cash was foregoing or not, because that's who you are
Waltham58
1-Jul-21 15:39:35
OMG you are amazing. I wish I had your adventurous attitude. I love reading your blogs. Tom