While I prefer women, I won't turn down a male encounter if one is available and meets certain standards. Those standards being circumcised, does not use any drugs and DDF (even though that is a given it doesn't hurt to mention it). I would prefer non-smokers or at a minimum not smoking while we play. I play within my own race (white) at this time. I do not shave down south but I do trim. I am okay with hair down there myself. I have just gotten to the point of enjoying sensual nipple play. Not a big fan of getting anal. I do have a submissive side at times but can also be DOM if called upon to do so. Also, I love to share a nice warm shower, which I find is a great ice breaker, and then give a long, slow, sensual full body massage.