Here are some thoughts on this question thread.
1. If we are all working to be a community wouldn't it be nice to utilize this site so we could show whatever pics we wanted too? I am careful because of work and others have their reasons but if we all agreed that "what happens in Vegas STAYS in Vegas" then trust would develop wouldn't it? Problem nowadays is that selfies rule versus privacy and discretion. I am working to build relationships, online that they are here, and to create as much symbiosis between online and real.
2. What do you do when you take on a new employment position only to be introduced to a new coworker who turns out to be a sex partner from an adult site???? I have had that happen but not 100% sure she recognized me as it had been sometime but I remember every sexual encounter that I have and in this case I just acted like I had met her for the first time. Secretly I was thinking of how much she enjoyed me eating her out, how she loved that I was so smooth and wanted to suck me as much as possible because of it. Now there's a first day of new job for ya,
3. How about relatives? Did you ever flirt with anyone not seeing their face and then find out that was your Aunt? Your cousin? Your sibling? Your spouse-yikes!
I know of people in all of the above scenarios.
There is too much Identity Theft and cyber crime not to be vigilant and focus on privacy and discretion but I masturbate to pics on here because I want to think that I can build something of a connection to my Tributes. It is a form of sexual activity that we have so why not make the best of it???