Seems like it took forever, but the weekend is finally here. I know it will be gone quickly as usual. The curse of having to work. I keep asking my parents why I was not born with a trust fund, lol. Geez, only 20 more years until retirement. Oh well, no use crying over it. Planning to spend some time this weekend with hubby and my #1 boyfriend. Do some trucker flashing and then either road head for the boys or back home for a nice long fuck session. A nice stress reliever before Monday rolls back around. Hope everyone has a great weekend.

I am faced with a bit of a dilemma, and while this does not rank among the most pressing problems in the world it is presenting me with a bit of a challenge. A male friend of ours that lives out of state is traveling to our area on business in a couple weeks. He is a lifelong friend of my husband so obviously, he was invited to stay at our house while here. I have had sex with him and hubby back before he was married and we have also done same-room swap with him and his current wife when visiting them, though it has been a couple years.

My issue is that I would like to have sex with him and hubby when he visits. My husband is absolutely agreeable and mentioned the possibility to his friend who talked to his wife about it. The other wife has agreed to allow us to have a threesome when he is here under two conditions. The first is that we video it so she can watch and the second is that she be allowed to have a threesome with both our husbands the next time we visit them, which might not be for 6 months to a year from now (she has never done that before).

My husband allows me to play with select guy friends of our with or without him present, as long as he gets his fun when asked. I am not quite that liberal with him and we agree that he will only play with a couple female friends of ours when I am in the room and either participating or a same room swap situation. I do not think I would feel comfortable sitting in another room watching TV while the three of them are playing.

I know this sounds selfish since she is only asking for the same thing that she is allowing. I am thinking of just telling hubby that I would rather not open that can of worms because I am not sure I would follow through when the time to visit them happened. I am not used to sitting on the sidelines and just worry that this might change the dynamic of our relationship with them even though we do not see them that often. I also worry that giving her a video might create tension, especially for the husband, thinking she might over-analyze the situation or just the fact that she can see it all unfold in vivid detail knowing she was not there.

So, I guess I am tossing this out here to solicit some suggestions or see if anyone has had similar situations where a spouse has agreed to allow their significant other to participate in an activity without them and how that turned out. I should add that while our friends live out of state and we do not see them often, we have always gotten along very well and obviously we have played with each other's spouses.

Suggestions?

I am constantly amazed at the sheer number of men that are in a marriage/relationship with a woman that does not want to have sex. I have chatted online for years, listened to talk shows and read more article than I can count about guys that say they have not had sex in a year, 5 years, 10 years. It seems so crazy to me. Why would anyone stay in a loveless relationship that long? I just learned that a guy I work with is finally getting a divorce after not having had sex with his wife for nearly 6 years. He said he was waiting for his kids to finish high school, which I find noble, but I cannot imagine that house was a fun place to be for anyone. Kids know when stuff is wrong with their parents. I am sure there are other relationship issues, but certainly the sex is a key indicator of problems.

I could not imagine being in a relationship for that long and not being intimate. Hubby and I used to listen to Playboy Radio when it was on Sirius (Tiffany Granath) and we would hear guys call in asking how to get their wife to have sex with them after X-number of years. I was floored that there were so many people out there like that. Every show had multiple callers with the same issue. My hubby would look at me and say "Unless there was a physical reason to not be able to have sex, I would be out the door in months, not years". Frankly, I agree. I guess the fact I am on a place like NN illustrates the fact I love sex, so maybe I am not the "norm". But really, how hard is it to keep your partner happy. A few minutes of your time every few days? I could not even imagine not sucking or fucking my hubby when he asks. Though in my case, I actually track him down more than he comes after me lol.

I feel tremendously sorry for people in loveless relationships, but also I cannot help but feel some of these people allow these situations to get out of control before dealing with it and putting their foot down. If you are no longer in love with your partner, have the decency to say it and allow the person the dignity to move on and find someone that will love them.

Isn't sex part of marriage and relationships? No one says you have to fuck everyday, but years? Am I missing something here?

It is the middle of February in New Jersey and supposed to go up to 60 degrees today. Not quite summer weather, but warm enough that I think it deserves to be celebrated with an outdoor suck and fuck. Maybe that will be what I need to get out of the winter doldrums and start thinking happy, warm summer flashing thoughts!!

I am not one to update my blog very much. Call it laziness, forgetfulness or lack of ability to write something I feel others would find meaningful or interesting. However, I did want to take a moment to thank everyone here on NN that has taken the time to view my photos, comment and vote on my photos, message me and chat with me in the chat room. There are truly a lot of great people on here, and yes we are all looking for fun, excitement, validation, friendship or some combination of those. But, it is just so nice to interact and share with the people on here.

Like anywhere, you get some idiots that you just have to move on from. However, my experience has been that the vast majority of people on here are good souls just looking to live life to the fullest and have some fun along the journey. I put myself in that category. Anyone that has chatted with me or checked out my profile knows I am an exhibitionist. I love to flash, love to show off and love to play outdoors in the warm weather. Places like NN allows a person like me to enjoy showing off and interacting with like-minded people even in the frigid months of winter.

Being in my mid-40's now I have questioned whether someone "my age" should still be flashing and showing off. Questioned whether it was silly or demeaning or whether it was a young person's game. When you take the time to search on NN and see all the great people of all ages still putting it out there and having fun, it is truly a validation that while not everyone will like what you have to offer, there will ALWAYS be someone that appreciates it. And for that I am thankful to you all that continue to make this site a fun place to hangout and share.

Have a wonderful and sexy weekend.

I am an outdoor person. Can't stand winter and the cold anymore. February may be the shortest month of the year on the calendar but it sure feels like the longest. In the warmer weather months I spend more time naked and having sex outside than I do inside. Love the warm breeze and sun beating down on me when I am wearing as little as possible,sucking a hard cock or getting bent over a park bench and pounded from behind.

Well sometimes you just cannot wait for the weather to cooperate and you just need a fix, LOL. So this week I went out trucker flashing and spent some time sunning my bare boobs even if it was in the car on a cold day with the heater on!!! And yesterday, as part of my hubby's VD present from me, he came to my work to take me to lunch and I had him park in the shopping center parking and I took off my top and bra, took out his cock and sucked him off.

And today, one of my hubby-approved boyfriends gets the same treatment as my belated VD present to him. Would be better outside of the car, but until I move to Florida or it gets warmer here, inside the car will have to do.

Hope everyone had a hot and sexy Valentine's Day. Let's continue it this weekend.

I enjoy all sorts of exhibitionism. But one of my favorite activities is to ride in the passenger seat of the car and flash truckers while going down the highway. In warmer weather, I am probably out and about at least twice a week or more to show off the goodies.

I love listening to the CB radio and get a kick out of the chatter back and forth. Especially when they radio ahead to be on the look out for "a blonde with her big tits hanging out" LOL. I have hubby or one of my guy friends drive so I can fully concentrate on giving the truckers the best view, slowing down as we pass so they can get a long, lingering glance before we move on to the next "victim" LOL.

For a while there I even had an informal fan club with on trucking company called Jevic Transportation. Many of the drivers had seen me in the past and would call ahead to other drivers from their company or they would talk to other drivers about having seen me before, which always made me smile. Unfortunately I think that company went out of business and my fan club was lost.

Most times my driver is rewarded with a great blowjob at the end of the trip, while my ass is almost pressed up against the side window. I love all kinds of exhibitionism, but this certainly ranks as my favorite thing to do. It is fun, I think the drivers enjoy it since it perks up their day I love the positive feedback. Not to mention it is great foreplay LOL.

Would love to know if others enjoy this as part of their overall sexual lifestyle.

OK, so I am a 40+ year old (yuck!) but don't usually feel it. I have been an exhibitionist since my college days and have always enjoyed flashing, posting pics, playing outdoors in various stages of undress, bending over in stores while wearing short skirts, doing the old see through shirt with the pizza delivery guy, camming, etc etc.

When you are young and do that stuff, people chalk it up as youthful indulgence. But when you are a middle-aged parent, working professional, married and living in suburbia, is it still acceptable? And if so, when do you stop?

I LOVE playing and showing off and I still get a lot of great comments from wonderful people, both male and female. I still flash truckers and listen to their comments on the CB radio. I still get smiles when people "catch" me taking outdoor nude photos or "accidentally" having my ass hang out when I bend over in a short dress. And certainly the great folks on sites like this always make you feel good and inflate your ego a bit (Love you all)

But that internal clock is ticking and I worry that at some point I will look foolish flashing my less than perfect body or my boobs that gravity has affected over the years. When, if ever, does it simply become ridiculous to do this stuff? Is there a natural cutoff?

I think a website like this is a perfect venue to ask a question like this because if you are on here, you are a voyeur, an exhibitionist or both. And of course the age ranges are well represented. I know the answer is probably that it is a personal decision based on each individual's desire. But I would love to know what people's thoughts are on "older" people putting it all out there with the public displays like I described. ot just posting pics, but all phases of exhibitionism.

I have always told myself that I will keep showing off as long as there is someone willing to look LOL. Not sure that is the best answer and I would hope I realize the day when I am just making a fool of myself, but would love to hear other's thoughts on this whether you are young, middle aged or older.

Now if you will excuse me, I have to go get topless for the pizza boy, LOL

Ok I have to admit, that I have never really blogged before and frankly do not know what would be of interest to people. I try to read others blogs and they really are all over the place, so I guess there is no secret formula. On NN, it seems even though we are all kind of here for the same reason, the blogs do not always reflect sexual content only. I am so used to just posting photos and responding to questions and comments via emails.

So I have no pre-set agenda other than I am really having fun on this site and if any has any questions or requests, I will do my best to respond here. Thanks to all those people that have looked at my profiles, photos, emailed and commented. I really do appreciate it.