Sounds like you want an open relationship. Ask her or tell her. If she’s ok with it just look for fuck buddies. If she’s not ok with it you’ll have to get divorced or cheat on her. I’m guessing prostitution is illegal so how bad do you want it? Tough choices. Good luck.

Your wife is simply bored of you and not sexually attracted to you any more. She's having an affair with another guy or two and is having the best sex she's ever had.

The thought has crossed my mind, but I don’t care if she is getting some on side as long as I can get mine. I actually wouldn’t mind if she came home full of cum and let me fuck her. I am a little nasty.

To start with, you're having this conversation with the wrong people. Communicating with your wife should be your first step. Also, I don't think it would be fair to her if you bring home an STD from fucking hookers behind her back.

I am in much the same boat, And like You am thinking hard on finding someone to take care of my frustrations, I've talked with the wife , But it has not did much good. She has some health issues and her need for sex has dropped off to little if any. She knows If I would find a Lady friend , I would be tempted to say the least. And I have often said, I'd pay for a good hot horny women !!

And I would should I find one willing ! I think I would be easier to live with too --after the fact. You know...

So Yeah, I would say get you some! And go home with a smile on your face... As I told my wife, Its Sex! I don't love the woman , But I need something beside my right hand!

I spent 28 years ON THE ROAD in construction - I've bought quite a bit of pussy in my day.
Some was good, some was REALLY good, some was not so good and some was just shit.
But it only takes care of the "immediate needs at hand", i.e., "for the moment".

Find a JO buddy, I don't consider it cheating if your just jacking with a buddy. If your lucky it will lead to mutual blow jobs!

I too am in a sexless marriage. We haven’t had sex in years. I still get off several days a week as I travel for work, but I could never cheat on my wife. It would be devastating for her if she found out and I’m not very good at lying. Fortunately I still love her very much. I fantasize about a lot of things and past exploits as I had a very good sex life for many years before and shortly after getting married. My wife was never very sexual, but that isn’t what drove our relationship.

My wife Angel and I had an understanding early, we both have strong sex drive, so if either of us decided to be celibate
by choice, it would be selfish to expect the other to atrophy along.

No to the prostitute question, I can get sex willingly

First, as typical on this website, WAY TOO MUCH morality preaching and judging, good grief! 🤯😵‍💫.

Second, a legitimate question based on needs, age, life, so forth was asked with some good answers and the typical juvenile response (as in how many juveniles are there here???????).

Third, we are in a day/age of why would one choose prostituon over the free stuff? Although I have no interest in prostitutes the response above grading their service kinda hits the bullseye on the Opening Thread. Is it better just to pay for a needed service and get it versus the "entanglement" of what is free? Too many people say No Strings Attached Sex but that is a myth. The women will scheme to keep the men and the men are often too jealous without any ability to admit it.

I would say think it through some more, point-blank ask the wife if she is being shared without your permission and then balance what you do with the answers that you get from discussing it all with her.

Wow, that's a tough situation. As SteveNasty so perfectly put it, if one partner decides unilaterally to be celibate, it isn't fair to expect the other partner to 'atrophy along'.

Unfortunate, that sort of thing seems to be standard in way too many marriages.

I would think that the best way to deal with it is -- if you haven't done this already -- have a serious talk with her about it. Perhaps your wife isn't aware of how serious the issue is to your marriage. Some people simply do not realize the severity of their own expectations upon the other partner. None of us are mind readers.

And you could always just use porn. Millions of men do -- whether they're in marriages, dead bedroom relationships, or if they're single.

Yeah, it's not like the real thing. But it's a lot less risky.

. Your wife must love you to still be around I’d say give her a hall pass let her bring a strange dick into picture jus be a part of it join atleast be in the room .. She will get that feeling outta the way things should go to normal .. My fantasy is to watch another man fuck my wife seeing her cum run down his cock jus sounds hot

. Life’s to short to not be happy jus be honest tell him u want another man then go be happy find u a young stud like myself that’s slim built tan skin ripped abs 9 inch rippled cock that is fat as well .. I’d make sure you was happy and fuck u like u need to be have your cum covering my cock I’d still be pushing it deep take it out slap it on that wet before I slide it back in

?? I'm not married to a man and not interested in a man.

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?? What are you on about?