stevenasty said: In trying to understand your point of view, I am totally confused, twice,
1, The way you describe yourself, if someone else said that about you,
they would be called mean and probably a lot worse.
2. What is your motivation, if your wife was being paid, I would under$tand,
if you were a swinger and having sex with other women too, I would understand,
but the way you put it, confuses me?
Nothing I'm saying is meant to be mean spirited, just curious , since you asked

theg3964 said: My second wife and I were in to the lifestyle from 1999 until we split in 2011 ( had nothing to do with the lifestyle, she lost a family member, and spiraled into hard drug abuse to deal with her loss)
But I enjoyed watching her fuck another guy, as much as she loved to watch me fuck another woman. She also loved eating pussy.
That was some fantastic fun, and so many memorable experiences. I still jack off often to my memories. It was always shared events. We did not party without being together, and always in the same room. That was our discussed boundaries.

TomK_ said: I totally understand why this turns you on. I get it. Do you jerk your cock while you watch her taking the other man’s hard cock? Does she make you lick his cum out of her freshly fucked pussy afterwards? Is small penis humiliation part of it? Do you get off knowing his cock is bigger than yours? Does she make you taste her pussy on his big cock?

sam8688 said: Only the couples that have experienced this will understand what you say. We have been in the swing lifestyle for years and I know exactly how you feel as I have seen and done what you talk about. Couples, men, women will never know how good it is unless they experience it. We actually talk about what we each experience, what we like and dislike. We only know what we know, and others know different things that feel good. So we share orgasms with others to learn. I only have the dick I have, and the wife only has the vagina she has and body. She has had many different size dicks and amount of cum and how other men eat her pussy and kiss her and excite her. I have had many different size tits, tight pussy, loose pussy, different body size, some good kisses some bad kisses, vaginas that cum and others that can only cum with oral. I love my wife and she loves me, sex is sex and pleasure, we love to see each other have orgasm.
You seem to be more into just watching other men fuck your wife, we love MMF and FFM but we are usually with couples. We are not Bi but I have sucked the dick of the man that just shot his cum inside my wife, and I love it. But again how do you describe that to someone that has never done it.
I think a lot of men are uncomfortable with the fact that another man just might be a better lover than himself, and make his wife have a better sex experience than he can give. That is where love comes in, I love to see my wife have a better orgasm than I can give her because I love her and sex is just sex. Some day our swinging will come to an end and we want to be able to sit in a swing on the front porch and say what a good live we had instead of what a great liver we COULD have had.
It is not for everyone, you have to have the right frame of mind and attitude. Life is short, enjoy it as much as you can, whatever you do.
just my thoughts

BigDog9458 said: For I have received that ultimate gift over and over through the years.
I have to admit my wife has never cheated as it is impossible to cheat when you have the greenlight to do anything and everything you ever wanted with my upmost blessings.
Has she taken men when I wasn't around and didn't immediately know? Hell yes she has but she made sure I found out. Even if she shared it on here before telling me. Or one of her bests moves is doing something in front of a friend or co-worker that would race to tell me what my lovely wife had done. Oh my god those are the absolute best ever.
I so loved those calls when I was out of town at a meeting or a convention and having the phone ring. They might tell me the story in five minutes but I knew the wife would tell it to me over hours as she kept my cock hard and throbbing until I could get home to her and have her tell me all over again while my cock was buried inside her.

we are many lol..the lucky few to rid our lives of jealousy and guilt

Candy52958 said: But looking at hubby's face as I am taken by his friends, co-workers, clients over the years has told me everything I need to know. The love that flows out of him watching me is so warming and so incredible I have gotten lost in his gaze and had no idea when someone had sent their load deep inside me. But I have never missed hubby unloading his hot cum in me or on me.
They say the eyes are the window of your soul and his eyes when I am having sex is pure love and I will never treasure anything more than the look he gives me no matter whose cock is buried inside me.

the very first tome i watched sophia getting fucked by another man was april 1 2015 .the thrill i got was almost over whelming ,how can i go back to the vanilla life ..thanks for adding your feelings though

Candy52958 said: But looking at hubby's face as I am taken by his friends, co-workers, clients over the years has told me everything I need to know. The love that flows out of him watching me is so warming and so incredible I have gotten lost in his gaze and had no idea when someone had sent their load deep inside me. But I have never missed hubby unloading his hot cum in me or on me.
They say the eyes are the window of your soul and his eyes when I am having sex is pure love and I will never treasure anything more than the look he gives me no matter whose cock is buried inside me.

That is so awesome!