First, not a man. When I fuck a woman I want her to be a woman.
Second, compliant and obedient. No fights, no argument, when she is told to adopt the position, she adopts the position.
Third, sucks to completion. Woman knows how to suck and that her job is to suck to completion, halfway doesn't count, suck and swallow.
Fourth, takes a licking and keeps on ticking. A nice hard slap on the ass means means she did good, and she is ready for another fucking.
It isn't some macho thing, it is just the way it is. She has no dick, she has no balls, she has tits and ass and a pussy to fuck. That's what she is there for, for fucking, not talking.
That's it, if she can cook she can spend the night.