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Member Since: 13-Dec-19
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whats with the voyeuristic turn on?
I'm interested in the reasons others may be turned on by seeing their partner having sex with someone else. regardless of gender, what makes it hot to see your partner with someone else?

I've thought about it at great length to try to understand my attraction to seeing my wife with another man. while researching i found an article that made some sense to me. In a nutshell the reason was that I find my wife so sexy that watching her having sex with another is far more exciting than watching any porn star having sex.

do others have different ideas?

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Not sure. bf loves watching me with another guy or girl. bt says it's on his bucket list to watch me with another guy and girl. Maybe it's a man thing.

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sscd said: Not sure. bf loves watching me with another guy or girl. bt says it's on his bucket list to watch me with another guy and girl. Maybe it's a man thing.


from the reading i did, it does sound like a guy thing. men are just more visual i guess.

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For me, 99% of my wife's orgasms come from me licking her, which is fantastic and I really enjoy the wet face fuck, but would also like to be able to watch that. Hence the reason that we video some of our fun which great to watch, but yes I would also like to be at the top end whilst she is cumming to lick and caress up there. bounce

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While I am not so much into the wife fucking other men thing, I am mainly turned on by my wife stripping for other men or at least showing her body to them. When my wife first started exercising her exhibitionist side, I was quite jealous and insecure about her wanting to show her body to other men and was petrified it would lead to her fucking others and leaving me. Now she has been doing it for over 10 years and has never shown any interest in fucking them or running off with them, I get extremely turned on by her showing off her body.

I like to see how excited and worked up but nervous she gets when she is getting ready to do it, but then once she starts he strip act, I just love to see her enjoy performing. It is like how many men love to just watch their wives on the dance floor, just enjoying themselves.AS she slowly strips off, I love getting that view of her body in a way I do not usually get (she never really does a strip show for me) and I love to see other men enjoying the sight of her body. For some it is a surprise when she starts stripping and you can see the anticipation in their eyes, just how far is she going to strip off. Once she is down to her bra and panties it is very satisfying to know that other men think your wife has a great body as she makes her moves and you see that her efforts to stay in shape are still getting noticed and paying off.

The first few times my wife showed her pussy to other men in person, I was quite jealous and worried,, thinking to myself, that pussy is mine and mine only, but now I enjoy seeing her nervous exhilaration and I like to see the mens reactions. I no longer feel jealous when men are looking at my wifes pussy in person, but still feel a little on guard, worried if things might go too far. It makes it worth the worry when they say they she has a very attractive vagina or are examining her breasts and saying they like her nipples. Sometimes I will just enjoy watching the man facial reactions and body language as he examines my wifes most intimate parts. It is partly breaking the taboos of nudity and of the womans body belonging to her husband only, but also a sense of showing off something which is mine, just how men like to show off their cars or boats to others.

While we do have very strict rules together about fucking others, now I am less worried about it than before. Where as 10 years ago I would have said there is absolutely no chance I would want to see my wife playing with another dick, let alone put it inside her, my views are now moderating. We have a great marriage and sex life which her exhibitionism has not effected adversely, so if she said she really wanted to shag someone, I would likely be OK with her enjoying herself as long as he was a decent sort and there was no chance we would cross paths in our real lives. I don't think I would watch her fucking them, I,m not sure, but if it was just a once off bit of fun and she was gagging for it, well, OK, go for it.

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vouyer124 said:
sscd said: Not sure. bf loves watching me with another guy or girl. bt says it's on his bucket list to watch me with another guy and girl. Maybe it's a man thing.


from the reading i did, it does sound like a guy thing. men are just more visual i guess.

That's been known for ages! Even while your man's got his cock buried in you, watch where he's looking! Right at the action point! We love to watch fucking! We love to fuck & we supplement that with frequent jacking off! WE'RE HORNY BASTARDS!!!

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marriedbi52 said:
vouyer124 said:
sscd said: Not sure. bf loves watching me with another guy or girl. bt says it's on his bucket list to watch me with another guy and girl. Maybe it's a man thing.


from the reading i did, it does sound like a guy thing. men are just more visual i guess.

That's been known for ages! Even while your man's got his cock buried in you, watch where he's looking! Right at the action point! We love to watch fucking! We love to fuck & we supplement that with frequent jacking off! WE'RE HORNY BASTARDS!!!


true dat!

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Not sure either, but luv seeing the wife naked or topless in front of other men, also luv seeing and joining in with her having sex with others

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I think it's partly about showing off how hot your partner is.

I didn't consider this being a thing until a random conversation and it occurred to me that I actually wouldn't say no to my wife being with someone else if I could watch.

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On a primal level, I think it validates the Husband/BF's choice when he sees that other men want to fuck her, i.e. it bolsters his ego, other respect and desire his choice.

Additionally, or perhaps alternatively, seeing her enjoy sex from a different viewpoint (literally) can be exciting, intriguing and energizing, if he's not the jealous type. Sharing her sexual prowess can be a kindness in certain circumstances, a turn on, in others, or sometimes just a fun experiment. Watching a lover being sexually satisfied, by oneself or another, can be a very magnanomous experience. However it works, as long as everyone enjoys it, I say go for it!

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HappyNakedChick said: On a primal level, I think it validates the Husband/BF's choice when he sees that other men want to fuck her, i.e. it bolsters his ego, other respect and desire his choice.

Additionally, or perhaps alternatively, seeing her enjoy sex from a different viewpoint (literally) can be exciting, intriguing and energizing, if he's not the jealous type. Sharing her sexual prowess can be a kindness in certain circumstances, a turn on, in others, or sometimes just a fun experiment. Watching a lover being sexually satisfied, by oneself or another, can be a very magnanomous experience. However it works, as long as everyone enjoys it, I say go for it!


I agree with this statement 100%. As someone who has been "shared" by hubby since before we were married, I think it is due to several reasons. I have always had a higher sex drive than my husband. He has always enjoyed watching me have sex with our guy friends and he is quite open about the fact that it makes him feel good that his friends "want" me and constantly tell him how lucky he is to have a wife that does all the things I do. But he also just enjoys watching me enjoy myself. And I have even had sex with a couple of his friends that were going through a dry spell and tough divorce for which they were very thankful. So I agree there can be multiple reasons for it, but in the end I think guys just like women that are highly sexual and a bit "out of the norm" from what other guys have at home.

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mehotdee said:
HappyNakedChick said: On a primal level, I think it validates the Husband/BF's choice when he sees that other men want to fuck her, i.e. it bolsters his ego, other respect and desire his choice.

Additionally, or perhaps alternatively, seeing her enjoy sex from a different viewpoint (literally) can be exciting, intriguing and energizing, if he's not the jealous type. Sharing her sexual prowess can be a kindness in certain circumstances, a turn on, in others, or sometimes just a fun experiment. Watching a lover being sexually satisfied, by oneself or another, can be a very magnanomous experience. However it works, as long as everyone enjoys it, I say go for it!


I agree with this statement 100%. As someone who has been "shared" by hubby since before we were married, I think it is due to several reasons. I have always had a higher sex drive than my husband. He has always enjoyed watching me have sex with our guy friends and he is quite open about the fact that it makes him feel good that his friends "want" me and constantly tell him how lucky he is to have a wife that does all the things I do. But he also just enjoys watching me enjoy myself. And I have even had sex with a couple of his friends that were going through a dry spell and tough divorce for which they were very thankful. So I agree there can be multiple reasons for it, but in the end I think guys just like women that are highly sexual and a bit "out of the norm" from what other guys have at home.



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