Wifey really gets off on being talked dirty to, called some nasty names, and generally treated like a slut. If it's all in fun she's up for it but you'd be taking a huge risk if it were in a normal context..
But she's actually more comfortable with some words than I. Not more than a couple, and I just get hung up on the definitions. It happens to be one of my idiosyncrasies that if you're going to cuss you should be accurate in what you're saying. Crazy, huh? I don't make a big thing of it or anything and likely no one has noticed. It's not like people don't misuse words all the time, LOL
But there really is a difference between a "slut" and a "whore". For the benefit of those that haven't really thought about it, a whore is in business and a slut does it for fun (even though I sort of knew it, I've been told by a couple of ladies that they were having fun at "work" but pointing that out will probably just serve to extend the confusion)
It's not unusual for guys we meet to be reluctant to go with it even after I've shown them which is understandable somewhat because you have to be very careful with that as it's a hot-button issue for a lot of women, and also for many men. I think more so with men our age but it's true for women of any age as they tend to either be the receiver of or the perpetrator of using certain words as a weapon.
That being said, thankfully no one has ever called me :daddy" in a sexual context so nobody has had to witness me wilt. You can call me anything else as long as you don't call me late for lunch. No judgement, I'm just not into age play.
I don't get the "feet" thing either but don't have anything against those that do.
Thing is about dirty talk though, is for me at least, it's harder for a chick to be good at it. The ones that are the worst, oddly enough, seem to be porn actresses. The mistake is trying to sound like "one of the guys". but I think much of that is they've been coached to do that by the ones making the flicks. There are only a few women in porn I've seen that are really, really good at it.
It's one of the areas women in the real world have an advantage, IMO.